Divorce/Family Matters
A Collaborative, Affordable Process
Divorce is more than a legal decision—it’s an emotional and practical turning point. Once the choice to separate is made, couples must confront a series of complex issues: How will finances be managed? What happens to the house? How are shared benefits divided? What arrangements will be made for future financial planning?
These questions are critical, and the answers can shape a family’s ability to adjust after the separation. At Portsmouth Mediation, we understand that traditional divorce litigation can be costly and emotionally draining. It often leaves both parties feeling embittered and can damage the possibility of future cooperation—especially when children are concerned. Mediation offers a better way.
Mediation Is Voluntary And Confidential
Mediation is a non-adversarial process designed to create workable solutions. Your mediator is a neutral third party who facilitates communication, ensures all voices are heard, and helps uncover practical, customized solutions.
What We Mediate
Divorce & Family Issues
Parenting agreements, child support, alimony, asset division
Elder Mediation
Family conflict related to aging, healthcare, and caregiving
Business Disputes
Contract disagreements, employee conflicts, partnership dissolution
Landlord-Tenant Issues
Rental disputes, housing complaints, security deposit disagreements
Workplace Conflicts
Communication breakdowns, job roles, management concerns
Mediation Can Be Right for You If:
You have an open mind, willingness to listen, and commitment to reaching a fair solution.
You prefer to maintain privacy and control over outcomes
You are willing to collaborate toward a resolution—even if emotions are high
How It Works
Schedule A Consultation
We begin with a confidential consultation to discuss your situation and explain the mediation process. This meeting helps determine if mediation is the right path for you.
Attend Mediation Sessions
During sessions, your mediator facilitates structured conversations. Each party will have the chance to voice concerns, express goals, and participate in creating a resolution.
Reach Agreement
When both parties come to a mutual understanding, we assist in drafting a written agreement. If applicable, this agreement can be submitted to the court for approval.
Follow-Up
We offer optional follow-up sessions to address any new concerns or adjustments after the agreement has been implemented.
What You’ll Need
An open mind, willingness to listen, and commitment to reaching a fair solution. Mediation helps couples reach agreements faster, with less hostility and at a lower cost. It empowers individuals to make their own decisions with the guidance of a neutral, trained professional. Our mediators are experienced in facilitating respectful, productive conversations that move couples toward lasting resolutions.
Frequently Asked Questions
What Is Mediation?
Mediation is a collaborative, non-adversarial process for resolving disputes. It involves exploring options and making decisions that reflect each person’s values, resources, and needs.
What Is A Mediator?
A mediator is a trained professional who helps parties communicate and negotiate. The mediator does not make decisions but facilitates constructive conversation and supports both sides in reaching mutual agreement.
What Is Divorce Mediation?
Divorce mediation allows couples to settle their divorce on their terms, avoiding lengthy litigation. It promotes open communication and reduces emotional stress. Our mediators guide participants through identifying issues and crafting resolutions that work for their family.
What Are The Benefits Of Divorce Mediation?
Mediation offers greater control, lower cost, less stress, and better long-term outcomes. It reduces hostility, minimizes trauma for children, and encourages agreements that are more likely to be honored.
What If I’m Unsure About Getting A Divorce?
Mediation can help clarify concerns about staying together or separating. A free half-hour session is available to explore the process. If both parties choose to proceed, the mediation begins with a shared agenda and may lead to a memorandum of understanding.
Does A Mediator Try To Reconcile The Marriage?
No. Mediation is not therapy. It focuses on resolving practical issues, not on encouraging or discouraging divorce.
Can Mediation Still Work If One Or Both People Are Angry?
Yes. Mediators help participants process emotions while focusing on the practical issues at hand. Emotional reactions are acknowledged, but the goal remains constructive problem solving.
Can Mediation Help With Just One Or Two Issues In A Divorce?
Yes. Mediation can address individual issues such as visitation or financial planning even within a larger divorce process.
What Does Divorce Mediation Cost?
Mediation is billed at $250 per hour. Most cases take 6–10 hours. Additional costs may include New Hampshire Filing Fees ($250–$252) and the Child Impact Class ($85), when applicable.
Can I Consult An Attorney?
Yes. Both parties are encouraged to seek legal advice at any time. Mediation is entirely voluntary, and participants may withdraw from the process at any point.